Words Of My Mouth

Happy Meal & Cookies

2011-07-23T12:43:00.006-04:00

LIFE- it's full of lessons! We often learn through experience and many of us have teachers, mentors, or role models who have had and will have an impact on us. (Do you agree?) I’m not sure about you but some of my GREATEST teachers have not been licensed, certified, or ordained. They’re NOT theologians, M.D.’s or Ph. D.’s. You won’t find them at conferences, think tanks, or at the front of the lecture hall…Instead, you’ll find them at your local daycare wearing pull-ups and barrettes in their hair. They’re generally pretty limited in their vocabulary and experience yet they’ve taught me sooo much. The greatest teachers I’ve had are the ones eating a Happy Meal with cookies on the side. I invite YOU to walk with me as I share lessons from the children in my life.

Lesson #1: Do Something Different!!

In my experience I’ve known grown folks to get set in their ways. We get STUCK in limited thinking. We get comfortable. Sometimes we reject what may actually benefit us because it is unfamiliar. One day my 6 year old instructor challenged me to rise ABOVE doing business as usual. We were in a teaching session and reached a point where he was no longer motivated to work. He was over his usual toys and his usual Sponge Bob Square pants DVD. In my desperation to make my kid smile and work. I grabbed a nearby can of…..shaving cream!! I shook it up, and squirted it all over his desk. I’m sure if he could speak he would have said, “What in the world is she doing?” To assure him that this crazy activity was OK I put my hands in the foamy mess, and then put his hands in it too. He began to giggle and smile as he realized it really was okay to play in shaving cream and no one was stopping him. I stepped OUT of the box when the usual was not working. I could have continued to teach an unmotivated child just for the sake of “getting it done”. He was so happy and motivated that he laughed until he fell out of his chair! There were no worries about the shaving cream on the floor, on the walls or on our clothes. This messy moment was priceless so I thank this child for encouraging me to Do Something Different!!
Lesson #2: Get Over It!

I wonder how often we cut people with our words. I wonder how often we say and do things we wouldn’t normally do because we just “lost it”. Do you remember having arguments as a child telling someone, “I’m not your friend anymore!” because of something they did? Then what happened? A couple of hours later or the next day you were best friends again. I’ve known adults to let weeks, months, or even yeeeee-ears go by…holding on to grudges. On several occasions, I have observed children GET OVER IT! One day I was watching cartoons with one of my instructors. It was time to get back to work so I turned off the T.V. She popped me (quite hard too!) and shot me a dirty look. In less than 5 minutes, this child looks me in the eyes and sings, “I love youuuu” from the Barney theme song and gave me a high-five. Are you kidding me…you just popped me??!!! This is what my adult mind thought but she was sincerely over it and was ready to be my best friend again. If my Barney theme song instructor was here today, she would say, “Get Over It!”

Lesson #3: FEAR is Overrated!

Have you ever said, “I’m getting my ducks in a row” or “I’m not there yet” or “I don’t know what I’m getting into”? (Me, too…Me too!) What if this, what if that, what if, what if? what if? FEAR! It’s been called False Evidence Appearing Real and it holds so many of us back in relationships, business, career...life! In my experience I’ve heard adults talk themselves out of countless opportunities based upon what they see or hear. My greatest instructors seem to have no fear! I absolutely LOVE that about them!! While we get ready, aim then shoot…They shoot, aim…and THEN get ready! Now adults…yes, I know we must consider consequences in some situations, but what would happen if we would adopt their attitude of fearlessness?! I’ve observed them climb… without considering heights…they run… without considering obstacles; they jump…without considering the fall…they ask without considering limitations. My instructors would say, “Fear? What’s that?”

Some these great teachers may live with you…you may work with them. If you are not connected to them...seek them out…borrow some!! Observe them..Love them and learn from them! Challenge yourself to Do Something Different, Get Over It and see Fear as Overrated! Remember the greatest teachers I’ve had have not been licensed, certified, or ordained. They’re NOT theologians, M.D.’s or Ph. D.’s. You won’t find them at conferences, think tanks, or at the front of the lecture hall. The greatest teachers are the ones eating a Happy Meal with cookies on the side.

Celebration In Chaos Is A Choice!

2011-07-09T01:31:00.002-04:00

What if you opened your weekly planner and saw the following:

Sunday: Pulled over and ticketed for something you just went to court for exactly 2 days ago.

Monday: Wake up with a stomach ache. While resting and recovering in bed the power will be turned off. Instead of recovering stay on the phone with the power company for what seems like hours. Drive to the power company to handle the situation in person.

Tuesday: Go to work and get your final warning for termination.

Wednesday: Car will stall on the highway in route to work. Call your job and tell them you won’t be coming in even though you just got a warning yesterday.

Thursday: IT’S Thanksgiving...GIVE THANKS!!

Friday: Miss the bus. Don’t worry, they are running on a holiday schedule so the next one will get you to work about 3 hours late.

Saturday: Rest

Sunday: Church-“I was GLAD when they said to me, “Let us go into the house of the LORD.”

Monday: Work the full day at your job. Get fired at the end of the day.

I hear you saying, “I would just erase it and plan a new week!” Easy fix right? I know some of you are thinking, “That is extreme and people only have that kind of week in the movies and books!” Extreme or not, I’m quite sure we can agree it sounds like chaos, right? Did you catch that the day which is set aside to give thanks and count your blessings had the nerve to fall in the middle of the chaos? Wow!

If you are familiar with the story of Job (in the Bible) you know that he experienced MUCH chaos! If you are not familiar with Job go find a Bible and read it...fast! Job lost his children and his property; his health began to deteriorate, his foolish wife (that’s what he called her…foolish!) wanted him to curse the Lord and die! On top of all of that his “friends” tried to convince him his chaos was a result of something he did wrong! That’s CHAOTIC right? Job vented and had his “why me” moments just like us... but in the midst of the chaos he made a CHOICE to acknowledge God’s sovereignty and to trust Him by confessing such things as, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him” and “But He knows the way that I take; When He has tested me, I shall come forth as gold “. Anyhow, go read JOB and you will see he was restored double in the end but I wonder if he would have been restored had he not celebrated in the chaos?

Learn from Job! In the midst of your chaos make a choice to give God thanks and count your blessings! It will not be easy at times but if you are breathing you have a reason to celebrate! Understand that some folks didn’t wake up this morning but YOU did! It could have been you or me dealing with the devastation and loss as a result of a major earthquake but it wasn’t. What will you choose?

Giving thanks through the chaos is a conscious decision. You can choose to have hourly pity parties and walk around complaining. You can choose to infect others by complaining daily on your Facebook status! You can choose to look depressed...That is what average people do. God has not called any of you to settle for “average”. You can choose to smile in the midst of chaos...You can choose to encourage others when you’re going through hell yourself…You can choose to remain focused although your circumstances are fuzzy. It takes strength to do it but the great thing is that you don’t have to rely on your own strength! Choose to hold on to the
dreams in your heart; Choose to hold on to the promises that God has spoken to you; Make a choice to stand on His Word! In the midst of your chaotic day, week, month make a choice to celebrate by giving thanks and counting your blessings!

By the way, regarding the schedule at the beginning...That was my schedule one week in November 2009. If I had known that was the week in store for me I would have opted to erase it too but that option was not available. So I had to choose to believe that, “ALL things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose”.

I don’t know what you are going through right now, but my prayer is that you stay focused on where you are going. I pray you will make a choice to CELEBRATE IN CHAOS!

Scripture references (Job 13:15, 23:10; Psalm 122; Proverbs 16:24; Romans 8:28)
January 29, 2010

LOSE CONTROL!

2011-01-14T18:00:00.004-05:00

My children,

Many of you are using your worldly, corporate titles in your relationship with Me

My child,

I know that you are a manager but stop and see that you have been attempting to manage Me when I am greater than ALL.

My child the psychologist,

My thoughts are higher than yours, so are My ways. You try to assess Me by corporate standards. Assess Me by The Standard.

Mr. Writer,

Stop trying to write your own script. Your steps are ordered by Me.

Ms. Attorney,

You don’t have to fight this one. The battle is not yours...it is MINE.

Mr. Teacher:

Sit down and learn My lesson. No wisdom compares to My wisdom.

Ms. Engineer,

You are my creation. I knew you BEFORE I formed you in the womb.

My child, the business owner,

Yes, I know you are results oriented and performance driven but please understand that I am not obligated to do things according to your timeline.

My children,

There will be times in your lives that you will not understand why things happen. Let go! I will not always immediately give you what you ask for. I am omniscient and I know what is ahead. The outcome you are seeking may not be good for you or it simply may not be time. To everything there is a purpose and season.

Let Go! Let me shape you, perfect you and mold you into the image of Christ. I am much higher. Flow with my Spirit for I know the plans I have for you. My child if you are confused about present circumstances it is because you have been trying to figure things out in your own strength. I am not the author of confusion. Bring Me each and every one of your burdens. Bring Me every part of your being. You are my creation. Surrender. It is time to reevaluate your relationship with Me. I am ready to take you higher. I am above your titles. I am waiting for you to lose control. Confess your pride. Repent of the need to be in control and allow Me to take My rightful place in your circumstance. Rest in My presence. There is so much I am waiting to release into your life but you my child you are in the way.

I see My children worn out from trying to figure it out! Your mind has been running a marathon with no hint of the finish line in sight. You are trying to reason and when you can’t, you feel like you are about to lose control. I dare you to lose control! Lose control so that you will recognize that I am in control and always have been. Silence your mind chatter (reasoning). It has dulled your hearing. Silence your mind chatter so that you can hear what My Spirit is whispering in your spirit.

Lose control and let go of your own reasoning!

Psalm 37:3,

Commit your way to the Lord [roll and repose each care of your load on Him]; trust (lean on, rely on, and be confident) also in Him and He will bring it to pass

Proverbs 3:5-6

Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding.

In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths.

Sooo… I woke up this morning with a desire to blog after dreaming about blogging the night before. While showering, the words that you just read are the words I heard spoken. I jumped out of the shower to write them down. I said ouch a few times as I wrote. MY plan was to type it up and send it to a select few via email but I could hear God say, “That’s real cute Kim, I thought you asked for a blog today.” So of course I tried to get out of it by reminding Him, “But, that’s not my typical blog content. He reminded me, “This is not your typical year.”

God bless and may 2011 be the year you draw nearer to Him because He says in His word that when you do (along with some other things~James 4:7-8), He will draw nearer to you!

Kim

The R's That Keep Me!

2010-08-05T19:41:00.112-04:00

RELEASE and RELAY!

Keeping your sanity while unemployed can be a challenge! Many emotions introduce themselves during this time. Some of them, you have never met! Do not lose focus. It is easy to stress out. It is easy to let the days go by as you sulk and complain. It is easy to go into panic mode and start applying for any and everything you see posted. Please calm down..who knows when you will have this opportunity again. Use the free time to your advantage.

I released my concerns and relayed them to God (prayer). As a Believer, I know and believe what God has put in my heart and has shown me by dreams and other occurrences. Each time I took my eyes off of Him and put them on distractions I applied for jobs because that seemed like the "right" thing to do. Doors that appeared open..suddenly closed! When I RELIED on Him while doing all of the R’s, opportunities that align with what He has shown me came my way without me having to kick down the doors!

Maybe you are stuck. You think your situation will never change. Instead of moving forward you have made a decision to settle in the moment. I acknowledge that some days are harder than others..I know what it is like to go through day after day... each one looking the same without a sign of change on the horizon. I know what it is like to think and perhaps say, “Lord, when?”. These moments are real. The feelings are valid. I would be lying to say that the down days will not sneak up on you just when you think you've got a grip on the situation! Choose not to stay in that position. Feel it and push through it. Acknowledge it and press through it! Stay focused and be encouraged..there is hope!

Love ya!

3 R's to Maintain Sanity While Unemployed-Pt. 5

2010-08-05T18:58:00.003-04:00

(Part 5 of 5)

If you are reading this, chances are you know someone who is unemployed. Perhaps it is you. In my experience, I have seen unemployment bring out the best and the worst in people. My goal is to share some valuable tips that will assist you or someone you know. When applied, the R's will help you to make the most of your time off and bring out the best in you. The R’s will keep you from going insane!

1. RENEW

Renew your mind. It is not the end of the world contrary to what you feel or what you have been told. Toss out limiting beliefs. Equip yourself with beliefs that will empower you not disempower you! Stop feeding into negativity!

2. RECREATION

Give yourself permission to have fun! Get out and do something. Go skating. Ride your bike. Take a trip to the movie theater...by yourself! In case you have not experienced it yet, weekdays are the best time to go to the movies (when everyone else is at school and work). You may just get the entire row to yourself…and that tub of buttered popcorn.

3. REWARD

Treat yourself! Spend an extra 20 minutes on Myspace...oh, wait do we still use Myspace? Take that extra nap this week (Yes, just yesterday II said roll out of the bed..it is all in moderation!). Have dessert..You deserve it..of course this only after you have made some progress in an area.

Remember: Some R's a day, will keep insanity away!

Be encouraged!!

So who am I to write about maintaining sanity and unemployment? I am glad you asked! I am an ordinary girl in love with an extraordinary God who was unemployed for 12 months; not just unemployed...but unemployed without income! All of those feelings and emotions you are dealing with...I have been there. You know the ones: frustration, doubt, guilt, fear, and uncertainty. On the flipside, I experienced joy, peace, contentment, passion, sense of purpose, courage, and discernment all while unemployed by applying the R’s.

3 R's to Maintain Sanity While Unemployed- Pt. 4

2010-08-04T17:34:00.002-04:00

(Part 4 of 5)

If you are reading this, chances are you know someone who is unemployed. Perhaps it is you. In my experience, I have seen unemployment bring out the best and the worst in people. My goal is to share some valuable tips that will assist you or someone you know. When applied, the R's will help you to make the most of your time off and bring out the best in you. The R’s will keep you from going insane!

1. RAISE

Raise your level of expectation! It may be taking longer than expected. I know you are tired of waiting. You may be ready to say, “Forget it” and decide to settle for whatever comes your way. Refuse to settle. Decide to walk into each day believing, “This could be the day that my situation changes.” Hang in there my friend. Now is not the time to grow weary or faint!

2. RECOGNIZE

Your opportunity may show up wearing a swimsuit vs. a 3 piece suit! Okay, that may be extreme but you get the point. Maybe you have been searching for job “x” but the opportunity comes along for you to start the business you have always “thought” and “dreamed” about starting. Go for it!

3. ROLL

Yes! Pull the covers back and ROLL out of the bed! You are probably thinking, “I thought I was suppose to rest?” (Pt. 1) Yes, rest but please do not hibernate! Got it?

Love Y'all!!!

Remember: Some R's a day, will keep insanity away! Tomorrow, I will share 3 more R's!

So who am I to write about maintaining sanity and unemployment? I am glad you asked! I am an ordinary girl in love with an extraordinary God who was unemployed for 12 months; not just unemployed...but unemployed without income! All of those feelings and emotions you are dealing with...I have been there. You know the ones: frustration, doubt, guilt, fear, and uncertainty. On the flipside, I experienced joy, peace, contentment, passion, sense of purpose, courage, and discernment all while unemployed by applying the R’s.

3 R's to Maintain Sanity While Unemployed-Pt 3

2010-08-03T16:50:00.004-04:00

(Part 3 of 5)

If you are reading this, chances are you know someone who is unemployed. Perhaps it is you. In my experience, I have seen unemployment bring out the best and the worst in people. My goal is to share some valuable tips that will assist you or someone you know. When applied, the R's will help you to make the most of your time off and bring out the best in you. The R’s will keep you from going insane!

1. RECEIVE

Set your pride aside. Toss it out of the window! Pride while unemployed is not an option! Pride while unemployed should be considered an oxymoronic phrase! Be open to the help that comes to you. I know you do not want to “appear” as if you need help but as stated in part I…YOU DO need help!. Do not rob someone else of the opportunity to be a blessing to you. Humble yourself then get over yourself. That’s worth saying again: HUMBLE YOURSELF…THEN GET OVER YOURSELF!

2. RESEARCH

How much do you really know about the industry you are seeking? What resources are needed to start that business that has been in your heart since you were a child? Who do you know that is doing what you want to do? Where can you get training and the experience you need? The internet is endless and thanks to search engines, you can easily find information that appeals to you and answers your questions.

3. REACH

Reach out and render your assistance to someone else.. Yes, volunteer your services and time. It has been said that giving begins the receiving process. Refuse to be stingy with your time. Seek out friends and family who may need help with errand. Find out who needs assistance with their businesses and organizations.

Until next time...Love Ya!

3 R's to Maintain Sanity While Unemployed-Pt. 2

2010-08-02T17:08:00.002-04:00

(Part 2 of 5)

1. READ

Turn off the television for a while and pick up a book. *News Flash* : you can use them at the library for FREE! . Pick up a book that will enlighten you...encourage you...inspire you and motivate you. Put down the books that instill fear in you, discourage and depress you.

2. REALIGN

That is just a nice way to say, "Make some changes!" Are there some habits you want to adapt? Maybe there are some you want to get rid of? You would benefit greatly if you use your off time to polish up. Build upon your existing skills and knowledge. Meet new people, connect with like-minded people. Attend seminars and conferences. Search for FREE and low cost online and in-class trainings. Consider joining a Toastmasters club near you to strengthen and develop your communication and leadership skills. Hone your skills during this time.

3. REJECT

Reject the naysayers!!! Please do not let them frustrate you or make you doubt yourself. If you are clear about your direction, it does not matter what others say or think. Do not be afraid to disregard what others may say if it is not supportive of the direction you are headed. Limit your conversation with them or cut it off completely. Do not feel the need to explain your every move to everybody! Everyone does not understand your situation.

Remember: Some R's a day, will keep insanity away! Tomorrow, I will share 3 more R's!

So who am I to write about maintaining sanity and unemployment? I am glad you asked! I am an ordinary girl in love with an extraordinary God who was unemployed for 12 months; not just unemployed...but unemployed without income! All of those feelings and emotions you are dealing with...I have been there. You know the ones: frustration, doubt, guilt, fear, and uncertainty. On the flip-side, I experienced joy, peace, contentment, passion, sense of purpose, courage, and discernment all while unemployed by applying the R’s.

3 R's to Maintain Sanity While Unemployed-Pt.1

2010-08-01T23:58:00.003-04:00

(PART 1 of 5)

1. REST
Rest is so important. You may be tempted to begin a new job hunt on your first day off or the next day. Get some extra sleep. Chill out for a couple of days…really, it is okay! Heck, take a week or two to to relax physically, mentally, and emotionally. Consider it “time off”. When is the last time you took a vacation day anyway?

2. RESOURCES
Please use them! Do you qualify for unemployment? Have you even tried or applied? There are various state and local agencies and organizations that are in place to assist you with your mortgage, rent, bills and food. I am not suggesting to make this is a way of life. Nor am I suggesting to be dependent on these resources as the end to a means. Understand they are in place to help in times of need... and let's be honest right now..you need help! If you are having a hard time seeking out these resources, get over yourself.  Think of it as payback time for the taxes that came out of your check ...you know the ones that you never understood!

3. REJOICE
In case you have not noticed...you are out of work not in the grave! If you are reading this:  YOU ARE ALIVE and the chance of your situation turning around is in your favor. You never know the moment your breakthrough will occur. Lift up your head and get excited that you are still breathing!

Some R's a day, will keep insanity away! Tomorrow, I will share 3 more R's!

So who am I to write about maintaining sanity and unemployment? I am glad you asked!  I am an ordinary girl in love with an extraordinary God who was unemployed for 12 months; not just unemployed...but unemployed without income! All of those feelings and emotions you are dealing with...I have been there. You know the ones: frustration, doubt, guilt, fear, and uncertainty. On the flipside, I experienced joy, peace, contentment, passion, sense of purpose, courage, and discernment all while unemployed by applying the R’s.

IT'S NO COINCIDENCE

2010-06-17T14:01:00.004-04:00

Do you remember the last great conference you attended? Do you remember how you were so pumped you were ready to conquer the world…all by yourself? You were determined to use the momentum to catapult you into your destiny right? Can you recall how you came home excited as a hungry puppy that sees his master opening a can of dog food? Then what happened? That once contagious thrill began to wear off like cheap cologne and after a few days things were back to “normal.” Trust me, I’ve been there a time or two…or twenty.

I recently attended the amazing FraserNet PowerNetworking Conference 2010 held in Atlanta, Georgia. My mind is made up that there will be no back to “normal”. Something happened at that event that has ignited a new spark…or maybe it’s an old spark that fizzled out.

Exactly one day before I knew I would be attending the conference, I posted the following on Facebook status: If you wrote a book based upon this week alone, the title would be_____(fill in the blank). I had to set an example and answer first so I replied, “It’s No Coincidence”. Little did I know that my end of the week would be spent at the conference! It truly was no coincidence and this was confirmed over and over again from the great people I met who expressed, “It’s no coincidence” that we connected.

3 things that I saw and heard at Frasernet PowerNetworking Conference:

1. Be absolutely AMAZING in all that you do!

2. Sharp and talented men and women who looked like me, doing their part to reach out and help others do the same.

3. People who looked like me concerned about the future of others.

3 things I am doing as a result of attending Frasernet PowerNetworking Conference:

1. Seeking to make a difference and add value to people; the money will follow, so no need for me to chase it.

2. Making sure I am precise about what I want at this stage in life.

3. Networking for others, not just myself.

If a Taser immobilizes one who has been “tasered” and Frasernet mobilizes one, it is safe to say, I’ve been “Frasered!” Like the popular brand of chips convinced us that, “No one can eat just one”, in regards to the event I am convinced that, “No one can attend just one!” I am excited about the 2011 PowerNetworking Event in Atlanta.

As I foretold the day before in my Facebook status, It was no coincidence; I needed to see what I saw, hear what I heard, say what I said, meet who I met, experience what I experienced…it truly was no coincidence.

Thank you to the “strangers” who are now friends who offered (well, they didn’t quite offer) they TOLD me they would keep me accountable. Thank you to my AMAZING friend who thought enough of me to invite me. Thanks be to God for taking care of His child and opening doors. Thank you to YOU-the reader for your time you have invested to read this. What you are reading is me taking action by blogging again.

It is mid-year and I have a lot to get done and many folks to help but I am not alone because so do you. Now GET IT!

By the way, how can we be a blessing to one another?

Visit: http://www.frasernet.com/ to understand WHY I’m so excited!

Pictured l to r: Leticia Owens-Marketing Strategist (wwwrtishcreations.com), ME-Your Communications Specialist, and Dawn McCoy-President and CEO of Flourish Leadership Group (www.flourishleadership.com).

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2010-06-12T21:42:00.000-04:00

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Take It Personal!

2009-08-29T13:52:00.000-04:00

Dear you,

I’m leaving!

I have tried to make our relationship work time and time again with no success.

So call me what you want but this time, I’ve decided to go.

You probably won’t even notice because you left me long before I decided to leave you without even realizing it.

You never told me in words but your actions speaks volumes.

If you would just recognize my value you would not be so quick to neglect me.

Yes, I am pointing the finger because I consistently make myself available to you, only to be rejected.

This is my cry for you to spend some time with me.

When did you become afraid of me? When did you become uncomfortable around me?

Please understand, I do not seek to harm you.

I do seek to challenge you to face your own reality…I challenge you to just listen…I challenge you to listen to that small still voice.

Let me assist you with hearing better…with seeing better

I have a way of forcing you to confront some things about you…the you no human sees or even know.

I encourage you to face the beautiful and the ugly truth.

I encourage you to use me as an opportunity to hear and know The Truth.

But you constantly run. You run away from me and tune me out.

Maybe I speak softly but please recognize there is power in what I speak.

I wish you would “make” time for me but how can you when you are always “finding” time for other things?

Do you not value me enough to turn off your “smart”phone, or the “intwine-net”…I mean internet?

Do you not value me enough to turn off someone else’s reality that has become a show?

I am no longer willing to compete with your distractions, your gadgets, your reckless recreation and your mindless chatter.

I can’t even get time alone with you in the bedroom! Before you sleep or after you wake up because you are distracted by the tune of someone else’s voice or tune.

You’ve stopped allowing me in your car…you ignore me in your home and stopped allowing e in your life!

You don’t appreciate me in conversations…always having to have the last word…always having to compete…always having something better to say.

You have forgotten what I look like. You don’t see my beauty anymore because the world attempts to drown me out when I show up. They’ve influenced you to do the same. They don’t care about me…they don’t care about you. They’ve got you hooked and you can’t even see it…or hear it.

It bothers you that others have made a habit to be around me…it bothers you that they enjoy spending time with me…it bothers you that they can love the me who you refuse to see.

I long to hang out with you.

Can you really say that you know me?

In conclusion I realize you cannot really know or appreciate me when you don’t know or appreciate yourself.

Please stop and consider all that I have said and take it personal.

When it resonates I will be happy to come back and hang out with you.

But for now…I am leaving.

Your ex-companion,

SILENCE (aka QUIET TIME)

“The girl formerly known as PEACE”

NY Mindset

2009-01-11T18:41:00.001-05:00

New Year’s eve…New Year’s Day…January.
December 31st, January 1, and the entire month of January are pretty exciting times of the year. We generally look forward to this time to “start over” or to start with a “clean slate”. We are generally energized and motivated about transformation. We tend to make plans and goals…resolutions as we like to call them at the beginning of the year. We begin to motivate and encourage others. We are willing to try new things.

We tend to be more optimistic and actually believe we are going to make changes and reach our goals. We celebrate and make up catch phrases. Uniting at parties, church, etc. We scream, yell and chant, “WE MADE IT!” We sing and shout, “No more jive in ‘05..Some things gotta get fixed in ‘06...‘07 gon’ be like heaven!“ In ‘08 we said we were going to be great and straight and in 09 we say we’re going to be just fine (did I get yours?) My point is that we are excited, motivated and inspired and we remind ourselves through these cute phrases. We reflect and meditate. We take inventory of what worked and didn’t work last year, and ask questions like “What do I really want?”, “Who am I?” Many of us begin to wonder what our purpose is and begin to search for the answer.

All of these things are wonderful but strike me a New Year’s Mindset because the flame that once danced begins to die and we go back to our old ways…until the next year.

Why do we wait until New Year’s to clean up, start and stop things in our lives? What if we held ourselves accountable? What if we challenged ourselves and maintained this mindset all year long? One of the definitions of New Year is “newly begun”. Each day is newly begun..each week is newly begun..each month is newly begun!! What if we were optimistic daily, weekly and monthly? What if we celebrated and had catch phrases daily, weekly and monthly (One of my daily “catch phrase” is GREAT THINGS HAPPEN FOR ME BECAUSE I EXPECT IT!!) What if we recognized each day as a new beginning…each week as a new start…each month as “newly begun”. It all begins in your mind!! What if we recognized each day, week and month all as opportunities to start again?!!!

Make this one of your best years ever! Make a commitment to live every day like it’s the New Year. Maintain a New Year’s mindset all year long!!

Whatever you have claimed your ‘09 to be: fine, mine or divine…How about renewing your mind in 2009?!

Love Y'all!

So In Love!

2008-12-27T19:51:00.000-05:00

“I am so in love with you!” These were the words shared by a mother as she lifted her squirming child into her SUV. Once the child was buckled into his car seat, she removed his hat, kissed him and said it again, “I am so in love with you!” The child is one who has been labeled as “special” by society because of a neurological disorder. It’s likely that this child was running around, getting into things and making a lot of noise earlier, however her words and tone gave no indication of his previous activities. This child will probably whine, attempt to unbuckle the seatbelt and make his mother angry, and frustrated but she continuously expressed her love. It’s unlikely the child comprehended what she said to him because of his age and disorder but I’m sure he could feel the love.

Maybe you are the “special” one. You’ve messed up, frustrated people…frustrated by people. Maybe you tore some stuff up this year…whined and complained. Maybe you made some moves that were not in your best interest. In spite of the mess made, know there is someone who is saying to you right now, “I am so in love with you!” Someone who sees ALL you do…knows your past and your future! The One who SO loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son!! Beyond that…eternal life is given to the ones that believe in His son! (See John 3:16)

As you fly into the new year, know that God loves you! His mercies are new daily (See Lamentations 3:22-23). He’s given us grace though we are undeserving (See Ephesians 2:8-9)! He is in love with you! Can you say the same about Him?

Love Y’all

Stay on Task!

2008-12-13T20:11:00.000-05:00

Complete the task. That’s all he was asked to do. Complete the task for at least 3 minutes and he would be rewarded. That was the assignment. In spite of my, “Keep going…you’re almost there”, he stopped. He stopped and asked for the treat that was right in front of him…The treat that was in sight. The one in sight was something he enjoyed but what he didn’t know was that I had a much better treat. I had one of his favorites waiting for him to reward him once the task was complete. He gave up. My student settled for what he could see although the reward for completion was much greater!

The student is no different than you and I. We are all given assignments or tasks and all that’s asked of us is to complete it. Often times we are like the child described above; we get distracted, tired, scared, frustrated or just plain lazy and we decide to settle for the treats we see…the ones that are within our grasp instead of relentlessly pursuing a greater reward. How so? We settle in relationships when we reach for the treat we see (physical appearance only, good conversation, etc.) instead of pressing on and patiently waiting for the one God has for us…the one who will encourage our growth, the supportive one with our best interests at heart. We settle on jobs and in our careers when we reach for the treat we see (benefits, bonuses, higher pay, etc.) instead of listening to that still voice within that nudges us to pursue what we are passionate about…the job, career or business that will align with your purpose. We who are Christians settle for the treats we see (yesterday’s blessings, somebody else’s blessings, etc.) instead of pressing (i.e., pursuing a deeper relationship with Christ, aligning our priorities with His, etc.) knowing that we serve a God who is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all that we could ever ask or think! (See Ephesians 3:20). **See Colossians 3, and Matthew 6:33 to read more about rewards**

Staying on task does not always mean staying in your current position or situation. Staying on task may mean letting some things or people go in order to stay on track. Staying on task does not always include an assignment we thoroughly enjoy and likewise it’s not always a piece of cake. Galatians 6:9 tells us to, “not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” (KJV). As 2009 approaches, let’s make a cautious effort and a commitment to ourselves to press on and push through in order to see what’s on the other side of “through”!

Love Y’all!!

Let Them Fall!

2008-11-29T15:20:00.000-05:00

"Something is different." This was my thought as I stood in a very familiar place looking in the distance. My view included several buildings and the skyline of midtown and downtown Atlanta. I have looked in the same direction many times and for some reason had never noticed the buildings. "Had I not been focused?"," Did the city decide to cut down the trees?", "Where did the buildings come from?", were the thoughts that ran through my head. One thing was certain...the scenery was beautiful! The perfect fall backdrop (OK, I know I was resistant to the Fall some months back, but I'm over it), the sky was clear and red, golden, and brown leaves seemed to float in the air in front of the buildings...wow! I'm no photographer but I wanted to capture the view on my camera. It wasn't until a week later that I figured it out. The city had not cut down the trees and the buildings didn't appear out of thin air. The same trees were in place, however they were bare. That's why I hadn't noticed the buildings before because the fullness of the leaves hid them. It wasn't until the dead leaves fell off that this beautiful picture became visible.

I'm convinced there are some great and wonderful things...potential we cannot even imagine inside of each and every one of us. It may not even be evident to those around us...yet. It may not be evident to ourselves...yet. The scenery (us) may not be too pretty right now. It may be a bad attitude, stinking thinking, a foul mouth, the spirit of complaining, etc. All dead things. Regardless of where you stand right now, there is a better person inside...one who is optimistic, one who speak words that build people up, the one who is grateful. It's time for that person to appear! It's time for that beautiful picture to become visible. I believe when our dead leaves fall, what is already in us comes to life and becomes evident to those around us. Those who are familiar with you..familiar with your talk and your walk will begin to say and think, ""Something is different."

Speak to those dead things in your life! Speak to that bad attitude and spirit of complaining and declare that anytime you are still breathing, life is good! "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" (Proverbs 18:21, KJV). Let us see that beautiful person behind the leaves...don't hang on to what's dead, Let them fall!!

Love Y'all!

Got It?

2008-11-24T11:49:00.000-05:00

Recently, I made a major change in my life. I was excited about making the change but many people questioned my decision. The other day, I shared with a friend that I still was excited and told him how folks ask if I regret the choice I made. His response was, "Kimmer!! Who doubted that you were happy? Even it it wasn't a good decision you would still have joy". I smiled and thought, "He's so right!" then I thought about a question a different friend asked me about two years ago. She asked, "What gives you joy?" and my reply was,"Knowing that my present situation/circumstance does not dictate my future".

My point: Circumstances may frustrate us ( I'm frustrated now as I type this because the trackball on my phone keeps getting stuck..making it difficult to navigate!!) , take an unexpected turn, make us unhappy, or angry. That's ok. Those feelings are valid. It's important for us to make a decision not to wallow in that pool of emotions but instead choose to lift our head and let joy sustain us! I've got joy, do you?!

--"....Do not sorrow, for the joy of the LORD is your strength." Nehemiah 8:10(NKJV).
--" You will show me the path of life; In Your presence is fullness of joy; At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore." Psalm 16:11 (NKJV).
--"Therefore you now have sorrow; but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice, and your joy no one will take from you" John 16:22 (NKJV)
--"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith" Galatians 5:22 (KJV). --" I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. 2 My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth." Psalm 121:1-2.

Love Y'all!

The Cell Tower

2008-11-20T20:29:00.000-05:00

My prayer is that the following blesses ALL of you! Sometimes I can see the strangest things and get a revelation! This morning (1/24) on my way to work I saw a cell tower that had 3 crosses on it (It was on church property). At that moment it was dropped in my spirit that 1.) God is our STRONG tower (Proverbs 18:10-The name of the LORD is a strong tower; The righteous run to it and are safe.) How AWESOME is it to know that the name of the LORD IS our STRONG TOWER 2.) God is our provider!! HE provides! (Genesis 22:14-And Abraham called the name of the place, The-LORD-Will-Provide; as it is said to this day, "In the Mount of the LORD it shall be provided." You see, we have Verizon Wireless, Metro, AT&T as our cell provider and that's how we have access to use the towers. The last thing that was impressed upon me is this: Although we have access to use our phones via the towers, sometimes the towers are down because of weather or a network issue, therefore we may not be able to get our call through. How great is it to know that we can ALWAYS get through to God if we simply call HIM!! (Jeremiah 33:3 -'Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know). Notice, that doesn't say, "Call to me and I will answer if you can get through! It doesn't say leave a message and I'll call you back. It says, "Call to me and I will answer…"! So whatever you are going through today just know that God loves you. He is your strong tower, he will provide and you can call Him and He will answer!! God bless you and have a great day!!!!

Love ya!

For the sake of this blog, I checked to see how good ol' Webster defined tower and here's some of what I found:
Tower: a building or structure typically higher than it's diameter and high relative to its surroundings that may stand apart..A fortress; one that provides support or protection; to reach or rise to a great height; to exhibit superior qualities; to surpass!!

Can you hear Him now?

Got Me Trippin'

2008-11-20T20:25:00.000-05:00

R&B singer, Amerie had a hit not too long ago called, "One Thing" that many of us bobbed our heads to. I came across the same words today while reading the Bible and they began to echo in the halls of my mind. Amerie asked what was the "one" thing had her trippin, but as I read today, I realized there are "many" things thats got us trippin! And there is "one" thing missing. Our "many" things come in the form of busyness, distractions, troubles, worries, etc. and they pull us away from the main attraction...the main purpose...what we really should be doing.

In Luke 10:38-42, Martha tripped off the "many" things and Mary chose to focus on the main thing...the "one" thing. Read it for yourself! Jesus was a guest in the home of Martha and Mary. Martha became distracted by playing hostess, while Mary sat attentively at the feet of Jesus. While she sat at His feet, He said to Martha, "Martha, Martha, You are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her" (v.41-42, NKJV). BUT ONE THING IS NEEDED...I read that over, and over, and over again. Then I looked at Mary's decision to listen and to get to know Jesus. The Word says she 'chose the good part' and some translations says she 'discovered' the good part. This means that Mary, like you and I, had options. To discover, meant she realized something. In the midst of our distractions; in the midst of all that needs to get done we can choose what/who takes priority...we can discover something just as Mary did.

So my friends, as I am saying to myself, I say to you,"You are worried and troubled (see Philippians 4:6) about MANY THINGS, but ONE THING is needed. Will you seek God and trust Him to show you what's got you trippin and the "one thing" you should prioritize? It goes without saying He is first and foremost and there are many area of our lives that may need fine tuning.

In the words of Jay-Z,"Thank God for granting me this moment of clarity. This moment of honesty!!" (Moment of Clarity, The Black Album).

Love Y'all!!

Be Still!

2008-11-20T20:19:00.000-05:00

The other day it hit me as I prepared to leave the house that I needed my social security card or birth certificate that day. Needless to say, I didn't have a clue where either one was stored. I began to fuss at myself,"Self, you had ALL weekend to find these things, you know you needed them today! Why have a planner and a PDA if you're not going to make reminder of these things?" So as I continued to fuss at myself, I rummaged through several places with no success. Then I began to think, "I'm going to be late! Girl, there is no reason why you should be late because you are searching for these things when you had ALL weekend...what is this going to say about you by showing up without those documents?!" I was a wreck as my mind raced (Self just would not shut up!) and the clock ticked. Then I decided to stop and pray (That may be the title of my next piece..lol). Yes, I prayed that I would quickly find these documents....I figured I couldn't find them on my own so maybe I had not cause I hadn't asked to find them (Ask, Seek, Knock) ! lol. In the midst of prayer a silent, still voice said, "Get dressed and BE STILL!" I didn't argue back that getting dressed is an action and still is to be stationary (aka oxymoron), nor did I argue back,"What do you mean be still? I'm going to be late!" Instead, I GOT IT and took heed. Physically, I kept moving but that chatter with self ceased and I concentrated on the goodness of the Lord as Marvin Sapp sang, "Praise Him In Advance" in the background. In less than 5 minutes, I confidently walked to (I'm not about to tell you where I keep these things..lol) Anyhow, I walked there in confidence as if I had known they were there all along.

The truth is, in my frantic search I hadn't even thought of that place and probably would not have looked there (don't act like I'm the only one who hides stuff so well, you actually end up hiding it from yourself!). Anyhow, in my stillness, God directed me. He led me directly to the papers after I decided to trust Him and not depend on my own understanding of where they were! In other words, once self shut up...once flesh moved out of the way and I cried out, "God, I need you", He moved...quickly I might add... and I made it on time! I was amused and amazed how He has a way of moving in the smallest of things that we think we can handle.

Do you realize He will continue to take control if we allow Him His rightful place? If we allow Him control of EVERY area of our lives! I say allow because He gives us free will. Imagine if we TRUSTED Him in ALL areas of our lives, even in the "small" things. Will you turn down the noise of your life so you can hear him say,"BE STILL"? Once He says it, will you do it and trust that He will direct your paths? Try it or better yet, try Him!!!!

(Scripture Refs: Matthew 7:7; Proverbs 3:5-6)

Love Y'all!

Strike the Rock!

2008-11-17T15:51:00.000-05:00

4 So Moses cried out to the LORD, saying, "What shall I do with this people? They are almost ready to stone me!" 5 And the LORD said to Moses, "Go on before the people, and take with you some of the elders of Israel. Also take in your hand your rod with which you struck the river, and go. 6 Behold, I will stand before you there on the rock in Horeb; and you shall strike the rock, and water will come out of it, that the people may drink." And Moses did so in the sight of the elders of Israel. (Exodus 17:4-6, NKJV)

I have a confession. Over a year ago, these passages jumped out at me in the most profound way. These passages say so much about trusting God and taking action!

In a nutshell the previous verses (v. 1-3), the children of Israel didn't have water to drink so they complained to and argued with Moses. Moses basically told them, "That has nothing to do with me and why are you testing the Lord...the Lord who has made a way so many times..why do you test Him?' They weren't too thrilled with his response so they started griping about Moses leading them out of Egypt only to die of thirst in the wilderness. There is soooo much to say about these passages but for now I'm stuck on verses 4-6. Here's why;

1.) Moses had a problem and cried out to the Lord ("What shall I do with this people? They are almost ready to stone me!" v. 4)

2.) God answered with specific directions and action steps for Moses:
a.) He told Moses to walk ahead of the people. ("Go on before the people" v.5)
b.) He was specific and told him to take SOME of the elders and the rod..He told him which rod to take ("...take with you some of the elders of Israel. Also take in your hand your rod with which you struck the river"v.5)
-In doing this God reminded Moses how the staff had been used before (see Exodus 4:3-4, and Exodus 7:20). There is great power in remembering the blessings and breakthroughs of the past and how God has made a way!
c.) God gave Moses assurance of His presence ("Behold, I will stand before you there" v.6). God was saying everything has already been set up..the provision is already there!
d.) God told Moses the action to take. ("Strike the Rock"v.6).
e.) God told him what to expect when he hit the rock. ("water will come out of it, that the people may drink"v.6).

WOW! Strike the Rock is about taking action! How often do you and I pray about a problem, situation, or circumstance, ask what we should do and when we get the answer we question it? We try to make sense of it. We ignore it. We ask for another answer..okay, maybe that just applies to me :-) I mean what if Moses would have said, "You want me to do what?" or "Ok, God..maybe you didn't hear or understand me but these people want water and you're telling me to hit a rock?" (DOUBT...LACK OF FAITH). What if Moses said, "Do you know how silly I'm going to look hitting that rock?" (PRIDE). He could have let worrying and fear prevent him from taking action by saying..or thinking, "What if that doesn't work..do you know what the people will do to me?!" Moses could have been like you and I made excuses but he didn't (not this time!), he just did it!

My sisters and brothers in the Lord, people are looking at you...people are looking at me. They are looking at us wondering, Is our God here or is He not? This is the question Moses addressed when he asked the children of Israel, "Why do you tempt the LORD?" (Exodus 17:2). So what does this have to do with taking action? Actions bear results (fruit). When you strike the rock (take action) as a result of God's instructions then fruit will be produced. As a result of that fruit being produced, folks will see that your God...that my God is real! It is ALL for Him to get the Glory! (see 1 Corinthians 10:13) but you and I have to do our parts.

So I ask, in whaat area has God told you to walk, told you what to take with you, and assured you His provision is already there? In what place have we made a decision to stay put because of doubt, fear, worrying, pride (manifestations of a lack of faith)? Often times the directions don't and wont' make sense (in our minds) but our job is not to figure it out but trust God. Is your mind made up? He's waiting for you (yes YOU, Yes ME) to STRIKE THE ROCK!!

**Ok, at the beginning I said, I have a confession to make and here's why :-) I wrote this over a year ago after getting a nudge to write THIS and send to a list of folks..well I didn't do it so here I am striking the rock a year later!

Love Y'all!

I AM (REALITY SPEAKING)

2008-11-17T15:48:00.000-05:00

I flourished from a dream that formed from perception.
I've encountered a bundle of obstacles; I have met many eyes of deception.
There have been times in my life when I never thought I'd see myself where I am today
I've come to realize that if you set yourself up for failure it will be sure to come your way.
REALITY is my name and I am a manifestor, I am a phenomenal personal guide!
I have been the reason many have smiled...I have been the reason many have cried.
I am guilty of causing people to stumble and feel really low
Some refuse to pull themselves up while others allow it to be their stepping stone to grow.
There are times I am the sun...there are times I am the rain
There've been times I've convinced you to believe that your dreams were impossible to attain.
In case you have forgotten my name; it's REALITY, and I am sometimes hard to interpret...in fact it's what I do best,

However my intent is for you to create for yourself and define your own interests.
My intent is to share how vital it is to know who you are and what your role is as you journey this path called life.
My intent is to share how important it is to disallow your dreams to escape you during times of conflict and strife.
They call me REALITY and I encourage you to strip off the mental chains that have been placed upon you historically,
For destiny lies in what you become once your mind is set free.
I come before you to say that perseverance and conviction has never hurt anyone
Utilizing both as tools for life, there have been many battles that I have won.
I have taken many risks when the chances appeared slim
I have examined and explored which things needed to be done...and I did them!
Once again...my name is REALITY and my final word is this;
When bolted doors discourage you, resist the temptation to turn away
Yes, I AM REALITY now, but I was simply a dream yesterday!

Kimberly Rice
(1998)

*As I sat to write for this week this poem kept coming to mind..I tried to force it and pull together millions of thoughts, ideas and pieces I've written down or recalled to memory but it just wouldn't work..there was a continuous pull to share this, hope you enjoy! It was written for and delivered to the class of '98 UC Santa Barbara-Black Grad*

Love Y'all!

Embrace the Fall!

2008-11-17T10:33:00.009-05:00

1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, 3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, 4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, 5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them.a time to embrace and a time to refrain, 6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, 8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 (NIV)

Not too long ago, I sat on the patio of one of my favorite coffee shops lost in thought. I sat there thinking, "I can't believe the Summer is over!" and found myself beginning to pout. I watched people walk by wearing long sleeve shirts, long pants, shoes and socks. Just days before some of the very same people wore short sleeve shirts, shorts, skirts, and sandals. When did this transition happen and why was I so resistant? Honestly, I wasn't ready for jackets, closed toe shoes, shorter days, cold mornings and nights. I wanted to know who I could talk to to let them know I would not be participating in Fall this year!! I was going to stay right there on the outdoor patio reliving my warm summer nights, walking around in flip-flops and reminiscing about the summer jazz concerts in the parks.

It was then I realized that this physical change was very similar to the change that happens in our personal lives. Seasons of transition. We all experience it but how often do we welcome the change?

I dug a lil' deeper and discovered I was not too fond of the word, "fall". You see, in order for something to fall it has to first be elevated. Think about it...if something falls from your hands onto the floor, it had to first be lifted by your hands. If you fall off of something (a bike, for example) you had to first be in a position above the ground in order to fall. I also thought about something else: When something falls a transition has taken place. Transition is something going from one place to another..from one stage, subject or state to another. So in the above examples, something has moved from one place to another (i.e. from hands to the floor..bike to the ground). We all know the hardest thing about change is..you got it..change! So now I'm thinking, "Hmmmmmm...what or who is in my life that I have elevated (given priority to) that needs to fall off right about now....what is it that I'm not prioritizing right about now so the time has come for some other "stuff" to fall?" or maybe it's not that I've mis-prioritized anything...it could be just the season for some things to just fall!!! :-) What is in your life that needs to fall? What have you not prioritized..what have you prioritized...what's just time to fall? LET IT GO!!!

There is a new season ahead of you!! Think about the leaves in the fall that change color and eventually fall..this process makes way for the winter which is another blog...lol. Think about the leaves (people, places, thing, etc) in your life that are changing color and the time has come for them to FALL.

Next, I realized that the season of Fall also goes by another name: AUTUMN. Autumn means harvest! Harvest is the gathering of crops...ripened crops that is! It marks the end of a growing season. Not only is this a season of things falling off but it is a season of seeing what's been growing and ripening inside of you. IT'S HARVEST TIME!!!!

Think about this: In the physical many people add extra injury as a result of trying to break a fall (resistance). What am I saying to you? What am I saying to myself? I'm saying, don't add more pain than is necessary...EMBRACE THE FALL!!!!!!!!!!!

Love Y'all,

Everyone Swings!

2008-11-17T10:30:00.000-05:00

Lately I've spent a lot of time on the playground sliding down slides, chasing kids,and pushing them on the swings. The swing seems to be one of the playground favorites attracting various ages, sizes and physical capabilities. I've pushed kids with different skills..some really didn't need help they knew how to start, maintain and stop on their own. Yet, others needed help with both the start up and maintaining as they would just sit there with there legs stationary just enjoying the ride as I pushed. I began to see there are various types of kids on the playground: The one who watches the swinging. The one who pushes the swinger and of course the swinger! So of course my mind wanders off and thinks, "Look at the swinger....therein lies a life lesson!" I thought, "If he would just move his legs he would go higher..if he would just move his legs he could go faster..if he would just take control of this swing he wouldn't be concerned about me maintaining his movement!

The key is that the swinger has complete control to determine the altitude and the speed/progress of the swing. Let's call this swing "life". You and I have the control to determine the altitude and the progress of our achievements in accordance with God's will of course.

Is someone else thinking for you (pushing the swing while you relax your legs)? Think about how often we're told, "You don't have what it takes to be an entrepreneur..just get you about 2-3 jobs and work hard" or "It's impossible to find a job in these hard times..the unemployment rate is crazy!" or "You're crazy if you think you'll ever be a millionaire!". We just swing through life and let these disempowering words, thoughts and beliefs push us. The more they push us, the less we do and we coast on cruise control...just enjoying the ride. What if you began to pump your legs and took control of that swing (i.e., replacing those thoughts by associating with people who've achieved the success you want to achieve....if you took control and researched a particular business or industry to learn exactly what steps you need to take..if you limited your time with those who are not speaking life into you...if you began to study and practice the daily habits of millionaires). You would have control of the swing!!

Until you and I decide to swing on our own, someone else is controlling our swing. Everyone swings! What type of swinger are you? Do you sit passively or do you take action? What changes do you and I need to make to control the swing?

I can hear your thoughts saying, "Sounds good but I don't know where to start!" Try one of my favorite books!! In James 1:5 it says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him".(NKJV) Ask your Heavenly Father where to start and then begin seek Him first!

Love Y'all!!